Rooted in hospitality, we believe that Connection grows best when people feel comfortable.

Singles standing and chatting together at a lively in-person dating event in a modern venue. Cocoon Brewing Company in De Pere, Wisconsin
Attendees standing and socializing near an Off The App Dating banner at an in-person event hosted at Titletown Brewing Company in Green Bay, Wisconsin
Group of singles seated at tables talking and sharing drinks during an in-person dating event. hosted at Flights Wine and Cocktail Club in Oshkosh, Wisconsin

My story

Cassandra Lambert, Founder of Off The App Dating smiling while seated in a studio portrait

I’m Cassandra, the founder of Off The App Dating. This local dating community was created from a mix of faith, hospitality, and my genuine care for people. After more than 15 years in the hospitality industry, I’ve discovered over and over again that connections grow organically in welcoming environments. Whether I was behind the bar, planning events, or greeting guests, my heart was always in creating moments that made others feel comfortable and cared for.

Like many, I spent time navigating the world of online dating. I eventually met my husband there, but not without plenty of endless conversations and discouraging experiences along the way. I know firsthand how tiring it can be to wonder if real, sincere people are still out there. That is exactly why I am here, and how Off The App Dating came to be. I want to offer singles a refreshing alternative to rediscover the joys of dating.

My Christian faith shapes everything I do, and I believe relationships grow strongest when they begin with shared values. Helping people find connection is more than a business to me. It is a way to serve and encourage those right here in my community and perhaps even bring a little hope into someone’s life.

As a Certified Matchmaker, I offer a thoughtful and guided approach for those who want deeper support in finding a Christ-centered, lasting connection. Whether you come to an event or choose a one-on-one matchmaking path, my goal remains the same. I want you to feel welcomed and encouraged for what God may be preparing for your next chapter!

If you are ready to step into something new, I would be honored to walk alongside you.

Certified Matchmaker Seal earned by the Global Love Institute  also known as Matchmaking Institute
Group of singles gathered at a table while two people shake hands during an in-person dating event hosted at Appleton Beer Factory in Appleton, Wisconsin

At Off The App, our mission is to make dating feel personal and filled with hope again.

Through thoughtfully planned singles events, personalized Christian matchmaking, and supportive guidance, we create opportunities for men and women in Wisconsin to meet in ways that feel natural. We understand how overwhelming modern dating can be, and our desire is to offer a refreshing alternative that feels authentic yet uplifting.

We believe true connection happens when intention is met with effort. Whether you meet someone special at an event or through a carefully chosen introduction, we are here to walk with you toward a relationship that truly matters.

Driven by passion

Singles standing and talking together at a casual in-person dating event inside a bar
Guests socializing inside a decorated venue during an evening in-person dating event
“Group of singles seated and socializing together during a large in-person dating event at a brewery.
Singles walking, standing, and talking together during a busy in-person dating event.
Dating can be tough these days, and dating apps can feel especially exhausting for a lot of people. That’s why I really appreciate what Cassandra is doing with her matchmaking/speed dating events. Creating a space where people can meet in person is refreshing.
My parents met through a newspaper article years ago, and while that kind of thing feels almost impossible today, it’s a reminder that meeting someone organically has always mattered. There’s something way more human about getting out, talking face-to-face, and seeing if there’s a real connection.
Cassandra does a wonderful job making everyone feel welcome and comfortable, which isn’t easy when people are putting themselves out there. I haven’t found the love of my life through one of these events, but that doesn’t take away from how valuable they are for the community.
For anyone who’s tired of dating apps, embarrassed by them, or just wants a more genuine experience, this is absolutely worth trying. I’m really glad something like this exists in our area.
— Jon P.
Off The App has been a great experience! The care that goes into the events is amazing. Very comfortable and real. Cassie and crew are vested in YOUR happiness and truly care. They put so much time and effort in because they honestly want you to find your person and get out of the rat race. I found a great person that I never would have met without Off The App. Thank you Cassie.
— Nick M.

Mixers & Mingles

Speed Dating

Matchmaking