To Try, or Not to Try? What Are You ACTUALLY Looking For?

Dating is starting to feel like something we just go through the motions of. We swipe. We talk a little. It fizzles. And after a while, it is easy to convince ourselves that this is simply how dating works now.

But deep down, you’re hoping for something that actually feels real. Something that feels like it could actually lead somewhere. You want to feel that “spark” that everyone talks about. You want to feel like you’re not just another face in another profile.

Trying something new can be uncomfortable. I know that. Walking into a room where you don’t know anyone, putting yourself out there, taking even a small risk. It can feel like a lot. But staying where you are can feel even heavier. Staying in the same patterns, repeating the same actions, and hoping for a new outcome is exhausting.

I started this whole business for people who are ready for something different, even if they’re nervous about it. It’s for the shy, the unsure, the tired, and the quietly hopeful. It’s for anyone who knows they want connection but don’t always know how to start.

You don’t need to be the boldest person in the room. You don’t need to have the perfect words, or the perfect outfit, or perfect confidence. You just need to show up. Everyone else is showing up with their own mix of nerves and hope, too.

Trying is the first step. Not a promise, not a guarantee, just a willingness to see what could happen.